Thank you so much BKS, your advice (and everyone's) truly helps me tons. I am going to continue to journal and vent here. He didn't get rude or anything just created one of those tense atmospheres that you can cut with a knife. Interestingly when I finished eating and started to head upstairs he asked me "where are you going" I said "upstairs" he said "why" I said "to read" and kept going. (That was his backwards way of telling me I "can" stay downstairs with him). Although I didn't want to display less than PMA I also didn't want him to think that just b/c he decided to get out of his funk I was now all of a sudden enthusiastic to spend time with him. That's a 180 for me, b/c usually I either try to lift him out of his funk or I get all sulky and take it personally. You are 100% correct, if he doesn't want me home then he can go out. I am the one carrying the baby after all (which is why I came home when I did ... tired and hungry).
Congrats on your MC as a couple and W wearing wedding ring again!
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
