FEB and I broke up at the beginning of May. He had second thoughts about feeling the need to be married. So, I listened and made some tough decisions as it seemed he had been thinking about these things since February. In our break up talk....he actually said " I don't know if I am having a MLC crisis or what" As soon as he said that ... I knew I was done.
I am in my 2nd semester of OTA school...and taking 18 credits this summer....so I am super busy.
The courts decided that ex does not have to help pay for college...Yay for the interm judge who doesn't read the law but it is what it is......they did award me the 5500 for back support that he owes....2500 for uninsured medical cost that he owes and 2500 of the $8000 in legal fees that I paid my attorney....
So, 10 days go by and he doesn't pay...so I call attorney and she tells me....."well, they can't make him pay but it will go on his credit".......I am so flippin pissed. The ex now makes 225,000 a year do you really think he cares a poo about his credit.
So, got screwed by the ex....then paid the attorney 8000 and she screwed me too!
UGH!
Lesson learned!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too