I was looking over your posts and saw that about a week ago you said you were going to ignore FB. I'd definitely recommend it.

FB is only going to make you feel worse. A lot of people use FB to try to show off how fabulous their life is, especially when it's not. My H did the same thing-trying to convince the world that life with OW was perfect, even when everything was falling apart.

Your W is probably trying to convince herself that she's happy and making the best decision, but having to watch that is just going to drive you crazy.

Hating her probably wouldn't make it any easier, but I can't say, because for some reason I still love my XH. I can't understand him, but there is still love there.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13