Remember that this will be a negotiation, you both state your positions and work toward the middle, hopefully.

Is there a formula for child support etc, in the UK. I would guess there is. Work toward that.

I'm sorry it's come to this for you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss