I am lost. Me 49, W is 40, Married for 8, together for 15. Lost a child in 2008, lost another child in 2010 (Miscarriages). Separated in 2011, Counseling in 2011 and 2012 (which I thought was successful) Reconciled in 2011.
W walks in this morning while I am dressing for work and asks for a divorce. Says there is no one else, she was calm and collected. (Other than crying as I stormed out of the room).
I am numb, I am lost.... I had thought the counseling had helped last year, we had started talking about our problems, then she suddenly stopped a few months ago (and stopped any physical contact). I knew we were floundering on the brink of counseling again (she refused to go to counseling this morning).
I am familiar with the "180" and have used it when we separated in 2011. I just dont know where to turn....
