Questions without answers...am I stuck in place?

[albamarie]

from the things I've read about MLC, it seems as if your H has come to that part of his MLC journey when he realizes that the affair, spending money, partying, have not made his fears or pain go away. I think he can see now that you were not the cause of his pain, and that in fact, you are his "thread" holding him to sanity. I've read that after replay, comes depression, but have also read that each MLC journey is different. But I can honestly see how a MLCer realizing that the things he or she did to try to ease their pain did not work and in fact only devastated the person who loved them the most, would be totally depressing

Without getting my hopes up or sounding if I am making excuses, or justifying anything, I do agree.

I read the same thing that's why I was asking others perspective and if it's about that time, and fitting to my sitch. It just may be that realization coming to a head.

The sage advice I get comes from reading others threads and trying to fit it into my sitch.

Thanks for reading, Linda. I'll take the payer, thank you!