Well Just checking in. Still no property settlement agreement from the STBXW. I've been hearing by the end of the week for 3 weeks now. It'd funny i've stopped snooping stopped texting and calling unless it's pertaining to the D which i've even stopped that lately to. I think i'm finally starting to detach. I ran my first spartan race Saturday (obstacle type of race) felt great to hit that finish line. The STBXW was suppose to go but given our current S obviously didn't and I didn't ask her to go either.

Funny thing is she never texted me for my birthday,anniversary easter or fathers day. But texted me good luck in the race. I never responded. Then I found out she was calling a mutual friend to find out who all was going. When he said he wasn't going and didn't know who was, she stopped responding to him.

I meet my brother in law for lunch yesterday first time seeing him really since Christmas. We had a good time. he said how good I looked talked about the race and his job. I think he was relieved that I didn't bring up his sister/my W. So looks like I won't lose his friendship over the whole D.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB