Thank you this next step is going to be super hard to deal with cause I have been with my H for the last 13 years and in couple of weeks he will not be moving out. That is the scares part of separateing from each other especially since we have two sons to think about. I think it wouldn't be so hard if we didn't have two boys to take care of. Even after all this im still hoping and praying that he will find his way back to our family. My plan is to break off all communication from him once he move out unless its able our boys. Maybe this way I can start living again. The other hard part will be for me will be on the weekends I had agree that he could have the boys every weekend for now. I just do hops he does not have our boys meet OW just yet. I know the boys are having a bit sadness cause we are splitting but I tell them no matter what happens between me and their dad we both love them with all of our hearts and soul And we both will be there for them. So may I still ask for everyone's prayers I'm not ready to give up just yet. Thank you to every one for their love And support for myself And my boys I will keep posting once in a while I just need sometime to figure out what my next step will be and I know its a super loooooong process and it could be about 8 monthes to 2 years if there is any chance to save my marriage and how long I will wait for any results.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
