I don't think you understand what the problem is. When YOU go to AA, you learn about the things that YOU did wrong to the people you love and how you hurt them. Then they show you how to get those things right. Why should your spouse have to go when YOU are the one that had the drinking problem?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.