I haven't been calling her she since leaveing calls between 3 to 6 times a day and if she doesn't reach me at the house she calls my family and friends until she does find me weather I have the kids or not this gives me much hope that it all will work out but im learning to not get to optimistic about it after all its still only hope and faith that I have.
Well hold onto what hope you can, but I agree with you that you shouldn't try to read too much into her frequent attempts at contact. You're just a few weeks into this. The WAS is VERY confused early on, they don't know what they want and they will frequently do touch-and-goes with the LBS. As time goes on she will likely detach more. Just stick with your DB'ing and focus on you and your kids and leave her to sort it all out. Keep in mind that this is a marathon, not a sprint. Good luck!