oh Raine, I"m sorry, I wrote this long message to you Saturday that seems to have disappeared. I'm glad that you were able to hear that part of your H's conversation with himself, hysterically crying, saying how stupid he is, when he forgot to hang up the phone. Maybe he DID go see OW, the little sneak, but it sure seems like he regretted it when he saw you were not home when he returned. I agree, this was a good thing to happen. Now you know how much he loves you and does not want to lose you. He will probably have more episodes, as he seems to be spiraling down like uR described. Maybe not -- after my H and his first EA broke up after 2 years, he was horribly withdrawn and depressed for almost a year. But I think this (knowing how much your H loves you) will help you to stand.

How did the rest of your weekend go? You are doing so great Raine!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17