AnotherStander has brought up some great points. The scenario AS listed is exactly how it played out in my situation.. so just keep an eye out for that. Just as AS stated, keep at it, and keep DB'ing and be prepared for it to take a long time.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
