Thursday morning: I send my W the following message – “The tension in our house is unbearable. I understand that you are not willing to move out. I also understand that nothing I say will convince you to stop pursuing your new life. But, that doesn’t mean it is appropriate to openly flaunt your new life in front of me and the kids. I am simply asking you to show some discretion. I have the right to be in my home without having to listen to you talk to these men, or hear your phone beeping every time you get a text. What you are doing is incredibly hurtful and disrespectful to me. When you show my kids pictures of you in Haiti with other men, it humiliates me. Please don’t show the kids your pictures, or talk with them about your trip. Please don’t let them skype and text XXXXX and or XXXXX. Please don’t talk with them about going on these trips with you in the future. And, please don’t openly text and talk to other men in front of me or our kids. This is a very reasonable request. Please let me know if you can honor it. If you cannot honor it, then we need to move forward with a divorce immediately. We can discuss tonight, but I do need you to make a decision. I am not dealing with this anymore.” - I didn’t get a response.
