I'm not surprised there's been no more mention of attorneys or D. Look how many of our sitches roll on with no movement towards dissolving the M. MLC'ers really seem to not know what they want.

Which outing would you rather do? How about the boys? If you guys decide camping that's fine. Thank W for the invite and explain that you all were looking forward to your camping trip.

I'd advise against trying to teach her a lesson with this. If she's drawing towards you and the boys then I'd be inclined to go with it, if you think it will be fun being together. I'm interested to hear what other DB'ers say about this.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl