Dinner went well last night! H was in a pretty talkative mood (for him at least) and talked about his work day (no R talk). After S went to bed, H invited me to take a bath with him and he also gave me a back massage (it's been a long time since he's done that!). Trying not to look into all that too much, but it was a really nice night!
You're barely 3 weeks since BD, I have a feeling that you've got a very long and very bumpy road ahead of you. I want you to be prepared for it, so let me share with you that in my sitch and many others here, the WAS actually seemed to show improvement after BD just like yours is doing. They go through the motions of "trying" to work on the M. But they almost always still end up leaving. It's believed they do this to "prove" to themselves that they "tried everything". Often it seems to the LBS that everything is fine again, the WAS seems to want to save the M and things often seem better than they have in years. That's why it's doubly shocking when one day they just up and announce they're leaving. I'm telling you this to remind you how important it is to DB even when it seems like things are fine. Because they are not fine at all, and they won't be for a long, long time.
Congrats on the weight loss and your GAL efforts, keep it up!
