DB seemingly backfired w/ my H???

[MrBond]

"I know unfortunately he felt negative, he didn't feel I was happy when he would walk in the door after work. I'm not a person who is a cheerleader type, but I feel like he knows me and should know that the fact I am there EVERYDAY when he came home with a freshly cooked meal on plate for him should have spoke volumes, but I guess that's not what he saw as love."

You've got it backwards. He didn't understand that that's how YOU EXPRESSED love. Guys do need a cheerleader to feel a sense of self worth. It's the way thins are.

"It's kind of annoying he wanted me to show all of this "happiness" and feeling wanted when he came home from work,"

AGAIN, this is how guys are geared. You have to understand this because if things don't work out in your M, your next relationship will be the same unless this changes.

"but on his off days, when I would come home from work, he's be sleep on the sofa, or watching a movie, he only had a meal for me a few times and he didn't seem "happy" to see me,"

Because the two of you EXPRESS love differently. If it had bothered you, then you should have brought it up.

As for the move, go and do it if it is in YOUR best interest. You need to live your life right now. There are going to be alot of tough times ahead in dealing with him. You need to get yourself strong.