Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[MrBond]

Oh and BTW, to address this...

"There's a lot of "you'll see it exactly my way or you're 100% wrong" these days."

I'm not sure how this poster came to this conclusion, but I want to clarify that this is certainly not the case. You are entitled to do whatever you want to and there is NO right answer. There are just 180s that are different from what you are doing and if what you are doing isn't working, sometimes it helps to have things pointed out. But the bottom line is that it is YOUR decision on what to do.

"Some people get to a certain point and then seem to act superior to others who are not progressing at the same rate or who have had setbacks. It didn't seem to be that way here several years ago."

Also, we all understand that people will backslide. It happens. However, when there are ways of preventing it, or when we see that there's something bad that can be avoided (like watching a car wreck in slow motion), we're empassioned enough about helping to try and prevent that from happening.

We will ALWAYS have YOUR best interest in mind and believe that all marriages can be saved. We wouldn't be spending our free time on these boards if we weren't.