K, I know how tough it is. I thought things were okay between H and I, and one day out of the blue he tells me he's not happy and we need to split up.

It's still upsetting to hear him say that I changed, but not until it was too late and he was done.

If I'd known earlier, I would have worked on things earlier. I have to accept that I can't go back in time and change things.

I felt like I was going crazy because we'd often have conversations about everything being ok and many times he'd make me promise never to leave him, and then he decides he wants to leave.

All you can do is take care of yourself. It will get better, no matter what. I wish I hadn't gone through this, but I have become a stronger, better person through this.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13