I feel like i am walking on eggshells over this. I don't want to cause any fights or trouble but i have to find out where things stand...it is hard to raise the matter when my W does not want to talk about it.
I am still feeling very gutless in talking to W about finances. She left our housing lease out for me to sign last night. There was no discussion around it except to mention that the property managers do not have my mobile phone number. Also, a month or so ago i mentioned that i thought that it might not be prudent to sign another lease, given our circumstances.
So, I was finishing at the gym this morning and found a text on my phone from W. She asked "is there a reason that you didn't sign the lease or are you just being difficult?"
I replied to her text later saying "Good morning. Yes. No."
How should i approach this in a loving detached way? What have i done wrong? Help would be most welcome.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014