Run and hide your crazy

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Your H comparing marriage to Hollywood and TV cracks me up! Seriously?

I wish our H's would realize that they are in charge of their own happiness. You can't rely on someone else to make you happy.

It's a good thing that you have got such a great sense of humor because with your h I think you need one. And don't you think that part of this whole mlc thing is that they are feeling inferior? I think that is part of the reason that OW is a step down from us.

RH was right. I was saying that you should enjoy your time alone while h is at the casino. I remembered you saying that he went to Canada and you didn't have a passport.

I would find it hard if my h forgot so many important dates. He has forgotten, or chosen to forget some dates during this whole ordeal and it hurts because I always try and make it special. When they can't do that it makes it seem like they don't care.

I don't know if you were directing the question at me but h is not living or did not live with OW. He is at his parents and mil said he comes home every night. She said she is being very careful not to push him too hard because she doesn't want to cause him to run to her. Mil and Fil not happy about OW at all. I think when you have been married a long time you don't understand affairs. Mil and Fil have been married for 66 years.

Love your humor, love reading your posts!