That is great that the boys are reconnecting with her and that you are supportive of that.
I know modern thinking is that the WAS is only leaving the other spouse but the truth is that the kids feel abandoned as well. It is fantastic that she is making the effort to reconnect with them
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13