GM - I can relate to you feelings.

It would be much easier for us to move on if we went to a doctor and they told us that our xh are diagnosed with XYZ. We will not get that kind of official diagnosis but that does not mean our xh are any less diseased.

As a society we watch people die from their demons, the Glee guy most recently, Whitney Houston, Amy Whinehouse and the list goes on and on and on and on but we have also witnessed miracles where people recover Robert Downey Jr, Mathew Perry, Colin Farrel to name a few. People that were heading fast down to the bottom and for some reason, some miracle stopped and got off and turned their life around.

I still ask why often but there is no answer to that. He just needs to go through this and no one knows which direction he will land. Pray for him and then focus on your kids.

I highly highly recommend Alanon.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13