What do I do?

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St H,

I don't know how so many of you do this for years. I guess that's the bright side of him already filing...6-12 months and it's over. frown

We're halfway through the 60 day waiting period. frown

What are you doing in the way of 180's, GAL and personal growth?

I do hear a couple of positive statements in there but I also read the above post and feel like your are missing the point of this..please don't, it is very important.

Your job is to do your best to lovingly detach from your H and move forward without knowing how things will turn out. When you focus on yourself, and your growth, your H may be intrigued enough to find out what is going on and you may be able to R your M. Right now, H is on his own path and you want to start creating a new one for yourself that may or may not (but hopefully will) involve him. Start to remember who you are, change the things your H has legitimate complaints about.

Your H filing for divorce does not mean things are over, only you giving up because he filed will guarantee that.

I know it is hard, however, it is imperative that you start DBing consistently.

We are all here for you..