Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

Thanks Urworthy!
Things went really well. Did not cross the goaline in the bed area though:)
W actually said she went got tested for STDs Tuesday and hasn't gotten results back. She is not comfortable till then and I am fine with that.
We found S a school we really liked. Pricey!! But great.
Found an apartment we like, her new stable is awesome for the horse.
And my meeting on Fiday with office couldn't have gone better.
We are relocating August 1st
We definitely got a glimpse of what things can be like if we both make the effort to do so. Which is what we both want.
Last night was an interesting night. We hung out and stayed the night with the couple she met through OM. It couldn't have gone better and were all swimming at partying at 3am. Lol
Great couple. We all knew the elephant in the room and we got it out early.
Actually the husband got it out first. He was the most worried about it becuase OM is his best friend. He said he understands the situation and that he knew it wouldn't last becuase of the way OM is and he even told his wife a few times that my W was way too good for OM and that she was just feeling a void at the time.
I told him I am sure I will meet OM at some point either through them or through horse world and I will be cordial and fine with that. Just not anytime soon. He said he completely understood and said he won't have OM around when we are hanging out.
Both he and his W sent me a message this morning saying how much fun they had and can't wait for us to move.
I am not completely comfortable with W being there on her own yet, but it was a giant step forward.
Looking forward to this new chapter in our lives.