Glad you're going to church smile Did you take the children with you? They probably have social activities that you can join in with, a bible study group and a prayer group. You should join anything that is going on and surround yourself with good Christian people smile I go to Church, go to a bible study group and take part in nearly all the social activities smile sometimes my WAS takes part in them as well.
I felt this year that he had lost his faith, but I'm hoping gradually he is regaining his faith slowly but surely smile I believe at the moment that he's had the devil on his shoulder, encouraging him to split the family up. The devil likes nothing better than to break up the family. I pray that God will touch his heart and fight the evil that has got hold of my H.
We all make mistakes, don't beat yourself up about them. You got out of that one quite well I think smile I wonder though why you needed to speak to your W. Did she ring you up or did you phone her? Since doing the 180 thing, I hardly ring my H up at all. I couldn't find anything on Friday and I wasn't going to ring my H up for help. I asked him today when he picked my son up and he said oh yea I know where that is, lol.
Question is, am I taking this 180 too far by not asking him where anything is? The way I see it is what's the point of ringing him up, he hardly ever answers his phone straight away and that gets me frustrated!
What are you doing tomorrow? anything special? Let us know what GAL you are planning to do tomorrow.
I have the support network coming round tomorrow morning to sort out my son's care assessment as he has special needs, then I'm taking my son to his activity and going to meet a friend in town smile I try and plan my day and keep myself busy. It's the summer holidays for us at the moment and my week seems packed already! If I don't find anything to do, I search on the internet for anything local to me or look in leaflets that I've collected from places I've been too.
If you can't find anything to do, then decorate a room in your house a different colour or move the furniture around. Clear out a closet and put her stuff in carrier bags. This may sound as if you've given up, but it's a 180 that is a necessity to do in order to move in with your life and make her think that you are.
Become mysterious, don't tell her everything that you plan to do. Just talk mainly about the kids and what they've been up to.
Hope this helps, look forward to hearing your update smile
Hope this helps smile Look forward to hearing your update smile

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S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!