Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

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dorightman.
I think you and I have a lot of growing up to do. While you and probably a great deal of people known to you and W may think you are the mature one but that is not entirely the truth. I think you know that and many don't.
Accept whatever grouses W lays on you because that is valid to her. The more you appropriate some of the blame back to W, the more you are going to struggle.
Just like you, I have problems accepting full responsibility over whatever W lays on me. You'll be surprised what others thought of you may resonate with W's. Ask your best friend for instance.
Just do the 180. It's for you. I'm getting closer to my kids. My kids requested that I spend some time with them with the tv switched off even its on the cartoon channel! That's a first. I least I know I did something right.