The Show Must Go On

[BrightFuture]

Hi Linda. No, I didn’t go to Mexico. My GF is still here and we’ve been busy doing all kinds of fun stuff. We went to the new restaurant opening free lunch with my other GF here and her friend. Four of us enjoyed the lunch and drinks on the patio, then we went to another bar at the beach. Next day we were invited to the BBQ by the same friend who went to lunch with us. She has a pool with the beautiful lights. It was great! On Friday we went to the local winery with attached farmers market. We had some wine and great food. Yesterday we were invited to my sisters for a special meal. We also did yoga, meditation, went for walks with my dog. Also, took a poll dancing class (actually more fitness than dancing), which was fun and hard at the same time.

Tonight three of us (myself, my GF and my sister) are going to a concert.

My H contacted me again a couple of times. Yesterday he wanted to know if the CD I sent him still has unexpired virus protection. I texted him that I just got a new version of virus protection for 3 PCs, so I could give him the key, if he wanted to download it. He said “Yes, please”. I sent him instructions on how to do it.

Tori, thank you for the advice. I will try to picture him naked next time, and see how it goes. It should be fun. I’m feeling more and more confident about talking to him. My GF gave some positive feedback on my changes and pointed out some other things that I still need to work on. I’m grateful for that, and I will be making more changes. I’ve been following your posts, and I have a feeling that it is not too long before “Joe” really starts to regret what he’s done with his life. You are a prize and I think he is starting to realize that. This is what I try to think about myself too, that I’m the prize and the best person for my H to have his desired “harmonious” relationship with, LOL.