AJ, I have no intention of exposing him, but I am very concerned that he will be found out, especially if that relationship ends, and I will lose my support.
I can't imagine the amount of stress he lives with on a daily basis. No wonder he looks terrible.
I really wish I knew what his co-workers thought of him and whether anyone suspects anything. It will all blow up one way or the other. I'm staying out of it other than to voice my concerns to my attorney.
Xh has said publicly, in court, to his attorney and the boys that he thinks I'm a great mom so I have no worries there. He wants a very limited R with the boys. He wants to see them, but doesn't want any responsibility for their care.
The settlement is all about money. He wants to pay as little as possible and he wants money out of the house. If I were completely self supporting I would have walked away from this a long time ago. I don't need to win, but I do need to survive.
