DB seemingly backfired w/ my H???

[Mimi00]

Another question (in addition to the above question^^^)

Since H seems so strong in his decision to leave and says he won't change his mind, I've considered moving back to where we used to live before we moved 7 months ago (separately) to take the next step in our lives (with him making more money traveling and me living where we planned to start a family, where cost of living was cheaper)

I contacted my old supervisor and there is a FT position open and she says all I'd have to do is fill out the paper work.

If I took the position, I'd be moving to another state.

H is planning to file the dissolution where I currently live, because I've been here 6 months and that is what is required by law for one of the spouses to have been here 6 months in order to file.

Would it be wrong of me to move?
I would be able to work that job and possibly a part time job, that would bring in more money for me to save an support myself (and the dog). Right now I only work 2-3 days a week bring in up to $400 every two weeks and I live w/ my parents. It's hard being here w/ them asking questions and butting in to my business. I feel like I'm 18 again living here, I want to be my age and I think being alone would be better for me.

Am I required to discuss my moving with H first? (even though he has stopped wearing his ring and is "single" in his mind as he says he's going to being worrying about himself only, but he claims he's not ready to date other people/have a new relationship yet though...)