lost and alone now

[Mimi00]

I wish he had talked to me about not being happy in our marriage before he started his A's I know we could have worked them out.

Kelela, this happened to me as well. My H didn't tell me exactly what had gone wrong in our marriage until it was too late!

This is something I don't understand with my H either. Several times a year I would as him how he felt things were going in our marriage and he always said good. Then after 3 years past he's suddenly unhappy out of no where and he was at the end of his rope. Why not say something when you were still willing to work at it. He "fought" alone, the felt he'd done everything he could do....all the while I'm clueless.

Continue to better yourself Kelela in spite of your H's actions. All the best to you and your boys. Things will improve over time!