WH, that's what I'm afraid of. We had an impromptu meeting the day of the settlement conference and it was a waste of time. He was full of blame and gaslighting techniques. I believe xh is desperate at this point and not in a position to be fair or generous. However, I will leave that to the past and work toward resolution. My attorney is going to need to do a really good job of standing up for me. Whenever I make a statement xh quickly starts with "this is why that doesn't make any sense...." or "you don't know what you're talking about...." or "you're crazy...." and my favorite "let me give you an analogy since you don't seem to understand...." Gaslighting!
