Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[labug]

Don't do anything. If she wants to proceed, she will.

Do you sometimes think you have a difficult time calming your mind? Does it seem to move constantly from thought to thought to thought, and you have no control over it?

You seem to speak without filter and that is harmful for you, for anyone. It doesn't really matter now whether you think your W worked on the marriage before of not, that's the past, it's gone.

Do you think she's going to have a V-8 moment and suddenly see the light?

I had/have the same problem, always felt that if I could say it, whatever it was, one more time just the right way and make him hear me, then he'd get it. All it does is make them understandably, more determined to stay away.

Slow down, think before you speak, respond, don't react. If you're going to start a sentence with "You", stop and really think.