I'm so sorry, Raine. That must have been so painful. How do you know when he does these visits? Is it better for you to know? Or would it be better for you to not know and live in ignorance?

It is so hard when they are moving along a little and then backing up a little. But each time they are moving a little farther forward, and a little less backward. And you are there as the rock all the time.

He is still powerfully connected with you. He needs you and wants you. But there's a lot of garbage in his head still.

I agree with Tvs and uRw, take care of yourself and be prepared for more out of control emotion from him as he works it through.

Thinking of you too smile
rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway