How funny/sad that your H was hiding out in the garage texting while his parents were over. Yup he was probably textiing the golf guys about going out for a drink. Yup. They think they're so sneaky, when really they are about as transparent as kids when they're trying to pull one over on us. In fact, most everyone's sitch on here seems to be taking place in the halls of MLC High. Too bad our Hs keep getting left back. 

Hi Complicated, nice to meet you! I'm glad you found this forum before reaching the end of your rope. It's been a real life-sanity-jail time saver for me!

I think our MLCers can't see how flawed their OW are and how wonderful we are because we represent REAL LIFE, while the OW are just as f*ed up as they are, probably more so. What self-respecting woman would have a relationship with a married man, especially one with little kids??? I think the MLCers feel superior to the OW. Cadet described it as "affairing down." What I'm hoping for is that the OW push and demand and pull for what they want, until it's not fun fantasy time for the MLCer anymore. 

What time did he get in last night TVS? I hope you find a straw cowboy beach hat! That would be perfect!!! I hope your trip does open his eyes like rH's Thanksgiving dinner did. That he'll realize what he risks losing. What is important and real and lasting. And how patient you have been. 


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17