Firstly, the one thing I don't do is think I want to go looking for him. I don't want to know about his new flat or where he's living, it disgusts me! I try not to think about what is he doing? Who is he seeing? Is he thinking about me? and the other one is, is he really truely happy deep down? It's ok to think about these questions, it's whether you hang onto them and let them rule your life. I think these questions, but I try to push them to the back of my mind and get on with my life. It's unhealthy to dwell on these things. You have to let go if you want her back. Keep busy. That way it's much easier to push things to the back of your mind. I'm glad you are going to see a counsellor. She will help you deal with life without her and will give you advice on what is or isn't an addiction to video games. You've got a long wait for her to come back, so you may as well have fun! I don't mean go out and look for someone else, that will give her grounds for divorce! Has anyone else got any more ideas, as I'm new at this DB thing myself
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
