I agree with you that W wouldn't share so much with you if she had a OM in her life. I'm so glad you are standing, and standing, and standing.
rH
Ok, so you'll love this:
My W dressed up and went out for drinks with GF tonight. (Looked hot, but not trampy) I told 'em to have fun as they left!
When she got home, she tells me that some guy asked them to dance and they refused. He protested "Is it because I'm a brother?" Ahh, no... we were paying our check and getting ready to leave. Maybe if he had asked us an hour ago...
There's no way W could make this stuff up to cover an A... I'd know. This kind of openness happens over and over.
I'm sure W was flattered, and you know what? If it helps her figure herself out I'm fine with it!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
