Looking back on Monday, it interesting the things xh squeezed into the conversation. He told me he bought a new car and wants S16 to have his old one. He felt the need to tell me what kind he bought and that it was a basic, bare bones model. It sounded like he let me know that he made a responsible choices after many years of buying expensive cars. He could have also said that so I didn't think he had tons of extra money for frivolous purchases. I didn't comment. I stuck to asking questions about the car he wants to give to S.
Also, when we were deciding on a date for the four-way meeting xh said a certain date wouldn't work because he's having cataract surgery. He could have just said he's not available.
For someone who wants to live a secret life he sure likes to give details.
So, xh knows he is unblocked, but hasn't contacted me yet. I do believe that he understood my boundaries and won't deliberately cross them. I fully expect that the next text or email will be polite, but he's not ready for that yet.
