B, like you my boys are my world. Xh was too. I felt like taking care of them and our home was the best job in the world.
Stepping back is hard. I haven't needed to yet since xh doesn't see the boys but they are starting counseling and I will need to let the counselor and boys decide on the R with xh.
My boys have told me that xh never smiles either. What's with these two? They are living the way they want with OW. S16 has said that xh is a shell of the person he used to be and is a very depressed version of himself.
Quite a few MLCers tell what's going on inside their minds. It's really interesting to read those accounts. Xh hasn't said anything to me that indicates he feels he's troubled. Has yours?
