She just sent me an ugly text about how I'm starting a war with her and trying to take her kids away from her. Looks like the trip isn't going as well as she hoped or someone has let her know she's not been acting appropriately. I caught the heat. I texted her back and let her know I wasn't starting a war but had to separate my feelings for her when discussing the boys future. Went on to say she should have no doubts about my feelings for her. No response.
Oh well. Actions have consequences.
Ouch. I'd pull back on telling her your feelings for her in this case. Instead, reassure her that she's been a great Mom, and you have no doubts she has the boys best interest at heart.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
