Thanks rH! She was always made to feel inferior by her mom and brother. It always ticked me off and I always told her that. I know that hurts her to be treated that way.

She just sent me an ugly text about how I'm starting a war with her and trying to take her kids away from her. Looks like the trip isn't going as well as she hoped or someone has let her know she's not been acting appropriately. I caught the heat. I texted her back and let her know I wasn't starting a war but had to separate my feelings for her when discussing the boys future. Went on to say she should have no doubts about my feelings for her. No response.

Oh well. Actions have consequences.


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later