Thank you all so much for the reassurance!

I was wondering if XH and I were both crazy for thinking we might be able to have some kind of friendship after all of this.

I do love his family and I can't imagine not being part of my SS's life.

Dawn, I'll respond to your question tomorrow. I'll have to think on it a little.

I spent most of the day at a simulcast from the authors of Boundaries. I wish all of us on here could have been there because I think that book was written for LBS, most of whom are fixers and codependents. It was a great GAL activity to get me out of the house and it really reinforced what I should be doing.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13