Thanks for checking up on me, Tvs. I read everything on your thread but am somewhat posting less.

On my post tonight I said about rereading my threads from this winter. You and GALb, not to mention Labug, T^2, snodderly, and others were constantly holding my hand to get me through. I could never thank you enough. Never!

Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious
I just get tired of all his bullsh!t - and of always having the one to hold everything together.

I felt the same way. It's much less now. In fact, I would have to say H has been shouldering his part of the load now very well.

I used to complain to him after he moved out that moving out here was HIS idea and now he abandoned me and left me with the amount of work for two! I'm sure that wasn't DBing but sometimes I was so angry at him!

Idk how you do it with two little ones. It will be amazing if they look back on their wonderful childhood....and it will DEFINITELY all be b/c of YOU!! You took the tears and emotional stripes on your back for them. You're totally amazing!

You keep going girl! I hope this vacation this week is something like Thanksgiving was for me last year. Reminding my H that time with me and family time can be really great. It gives them something to think about. Reminds them of what they are missing. I remember being totally "relaxed and centered", which are the terms my IC used. You'll do that too!

I can't wait for all the details smile

Hugs,
rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway