Yeah TVS, I don't understand why they get worked up about losing OW instead of losing us. Why can't they see how flawed they are and how wonderful we are. After all, we have stood for them this whole time waiting for them to get their brain back.
I am hoping for you that a few days spent with h and the boys will make him see what he has with you and what OW doesn't have. You are doing such a great job dbing that he can't help but see it, it just hasn't fully processed yet.
I have been doing this a long time. Probably about 3 years or so. This place has been a godsend. I was pretty much at the end of my rope when I found it. Mostly I just read what everyone has to say. I'm still working through this with H so I hate to give much advice. Sometimes I wonder if he will be one of the ones that doesn't make it through. What a scary thought.
Have a great time on your trip! I am envious. Just keep being you!
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out