Sometimes I feel like they can only hold it together for so long, then BANG - they revert back to craziness.
I do believe though, that it's all part of them working their way through. They're going to be up, down, and all around.
Deep down, he KNOWS what he has with you, knows how lucky he is to have you as his wife, knows how lucky he is to have your beautiful family.
So the confusion for him might be... Why aren't I happy? Why can't I stop myself from needing the OW?
I see it too, my H spiraling down, down, down.
I've come to believe rock bottom may not be such a bad destination for these guys. Maybe after visiting there, they'll be ready to work their way back.
Take care of yourself. Thinking of you
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."