Oh my! I wonder who OW thought she was sending that text message to! Too bad they never got it and no one covered her floor time. Oops. 

I'm sure she knows lots of stuff about you, NLT, off your h's cell phone. I know RT's name, address, phone number, skype name, and email address. Not that that does me any good. I have pondered sending her an email or text telling her about our true financial situation. My H misrepresents himself to her as a successful businessman when he is actually sick and unable to work. But I figured that would just tick him off; he needs to get her out of his system on his own. 

HOW has OW managed to perform her sales job for a whole week from 1,000 miles away? Amazing! I'm glad she (and her friend Chatty Cathy) seem to be driving him nuts! Reality check! Plus you mentioned he's really competitive, but the type to become bored after a successful conquest. Not long now!

Did you decide how to handle the OW's H asking you for MLC help?


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17