Oh my! I wonder who OW thought she was sending that text message to! Too bad they never got it and no one covered her floor time. Oops.
I'm sure she knows lots of stuff about you, NLT, off your h's cell phone. I know RT's name, address, phone number, skype name, and email address. Not that that does me any good. I have pondered sending her an email or text telling her about our true financial situation. My H misrepresents himself to her as a successful businessman when he is actually sick and unable to work. But I figured that would just tick him off; he needs to get her out of his system on his own.
HOW has OW managed to perform her sales job for a whole week from 1,000 miles away? Amazing! I'm glad she (and her friend Chatty Cathy) seem to be driving him nuts! Reality check! Plus you mentioned he's really competitive, but the type to become bored after a successful conquest. Not long now!
Did you decide how to handle the OW's H asking you for MLC help?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
I have no idea who she thought she was sending it to but it definitely wasn't me! LOL Hope whoever she was sending it to never got a message from her and that she loses her job over it!
From what I know, the other Chatty Cathy left last Sunday so at least he is only dealing with half as much chatter as before. Yep, he is the type to become bored very easily. He just keeps moving and changing the scenery and it's even worse now. As to a successful conquest, you are right, it won't be long before he is on to the new ow and because of the latest developments it could be a lot sooner. I'm going to start a new thread to post the latest drama.
I haven't responded to the ow's h yet. I feel bad for not responding but I think I'll just let that ride for awhile. He is doing as well as can be expected and may even have found a place to learn about "Affairs" on his own.
On to the next thread............ "Fantasy meets Reality"
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
Anyway, I did worry that the ow's h was going to come here and find him and do some real harm to him. The times that he went to visit her I had visions of a knock down drag out fight happening and someone getting hurt.
It's worth keeping in mind that such things sometimes DO happen.
I remember one woman on here, years ago, she lived in Venezuela I believe. She was DBing her husband who had had an affair. Things were actually looking somewhat promising. Then her husband was shot dead in the street - it turned out to be a hit coordinated by the husband of the woman he had been having an affair with. Very sad.
kml, I've heard and read many incidents along that line. Pretty scary stuff. I think he knows that too. But you know how it is with teenage male egos. OW's h suffers from depression which I believe is partly due to ow and her antics. Who knows what he's capable of.
If you want a good laugh, grab your popcorn and read their latest drama on my new thread.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
