I agree Sandi smile My dilemma is that since I've been doing 180, my H has been going around telling everyone how happy we both are now that we've split up. I reckon he said this to look good to other people, so that he doesn't get slated for leaving me. My IC said I should challenge him about speaking on my behalf. What do you guys thing?


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!