I worked for 9 of the 12 years. The past 2.5 years however became very difficult to get work. She had a few jobs but never lasted for long. I have 2 D's but they were out of the home by 2000.She seemed to have things to say over the past year. I was really struggling to get work and she knew this. But, as I struggled stress became an issue on both of us. I became a sloppy dresser and started putting on some pounds. she suggested a few times to take whatever I could get and honestly I only gave that a half hearted effort.Kept telling her during this time how i wanted nothing more to get a position where she didnt have to work. Her family where we were liked me. Her other family seemed to accept me ok but there was never any real relationship with them as they lived far away.Her son was friendly enough but towards me but i always felt how they might of been questioning how we seemed to move around so much. But that was something my W and I both agreed on before doing.
