In xh's new life rules don't apply to him. He lied (a real whopper) on a mortgage loan application, lied on our tax return (I finally received a copy a last week; I need to discuss it with my attorney), lied in legal documents and to his attorney about me, is keeping his gf secret so he isn't fired and on and on. I keep waiting for his behavior to bring him down, but I'm the one fighting to maintain my current lifestyle. As painful as finalizing the D was, it was in my best interest. Xh is totally out of control.
So, what do I do? Cancel the four-way meeting and go back to the settlement judge and lay it all out. Or do I go to the meeting, acting oblivious to it all and DB my way through with the hope that I will prevail?
