Hi, I had to read your new thread after seeing your signature line that your D.

I'm sure your experiencing what they say, that D comes w it's own set of issues, but at least your free to explore yourself.

My biggest fear is still being subject to H's sitch, D or not. My kids are grown, and he works an hour away so I would hope that's distant enough, he has no reason to drive to this suburb.

Does D mean anything different to your XH, I mean is it just a way to feel free but not really making a change in his life?

I'm sure you know what it means to and for your life, I hope your doing well.

The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!